Written by Jason

Hey everyone! It’s that time of year again! Of getting together with friends and family, reflecting on the year that has past and looking ahead to the next one, and… way too much going on! Okay, maybe that last one is just me, but for myself, I know that Christmastime is a time when I quite often get “peopled out” and want to advance in a direction away from what feels to me like complete chaos.

One goal Karlissa and I have discussed is keeping better track of what books (and even TV shows and movies) we watch in a given year. And if there’s one thing that I have learned, it’s that in today’s world of media oversaturation, word of mouth is the best way to market the stories you have interacted with.

So with that in mind, here’s some recommendations for different books, TV Shows, or even movies that you might want to consider in some of your quieter moments this holiday season, or even moving into the new year. Some might be new, others new to me, and of course, all are fantasy (or fantasy-adjacent)!

Books…

This manga is fun and has surprisingly deep themes about family life, responsibilities and bonds. Add on fantastic action of different types – espionage and outlandish assassinations – as well as fantastic characters and great humor. I can’t help but wonder that I get more out of this series as a husband and dad than the teen crowd it is aimed at.

Karlissa here! This year I discovered this beautifully illustrated book about the friendship of C.S. Lewis and J.R.R. Tolkien – I recommend checking it out!

TV Shows…

Okay, maybe this one is a bit of a cop-out. But having only discovered the manga and the TV series, I can honestly say that, in my mind they are both well worth your time. The TV show largely stays true to the manga, but Karlissa prefers the TV Show’s flow.

A fan-made, animated, original Legend of Zelda story. The fact that the characters speak via text boxes (like the video games) does not detract. The story is gripping, the soundtrack spectacular, and I for one cannot wait for the next episode (the 6th episode was released in the spring of 2025). Check out these videos on YouTube, this is not your average fan-fiction.

Movies…

While I’m sure many of you have come into contact with this movie in one form or another, please allow Karlissa a moment to sing its praises: “Fun, unique, and crazy, with great animation and engaging characters!”

Not a new movie by any stretch, but one that keeps with the holiday theme. Make no mistake, this is not a Christian movie by any stretch, but with charming animation, brilliant character growth and a great sense of humor, it’s a favourite in my house.

A new release for this year, and while the novelty of the first is gone, I would argue that it’s the more subtle character growth and struggles that give it plenty of merit all its own.

Thanks to everyone who has listened to our podcast, read our blog, bought a book, or attended a book signing this year! Thanks for being a part of the journey with us, and please stay tuned for updates on Karlissa’s new book To Narnia and Beyond, as well as any other projects that we will put out. Also, for more recommendations, follow Karlissa and I on Goodreads (click here for Karlissa and here for me) and see what we have been reading and our thoughts on them. Merry Christmas to all, and a Happy New Year!

By Jason Koop

Let’s get this out of the way, I grew up in a western Evangelical culture. As such, I was exposed to a lot of the common tropes in the 90s and 00s. And with the goggles of retrospection on, I can only now start to recognize the waters I was swimming in.

One thing that was abundantly clear: Fantasy was not for “good, Christian adults”! It was only something for kids/teens to grow out of once they got older and “more mature”. A placeholder, not something to hold onto into adulthood – unless you were using it to teach something to children or young teens.

Fantasy… For Grown-Up Christians?

Why, the very idea that any credible adult could have any positive, growing experience from reading stories about a blue hedgehog that runs at super-sonic speeds, spandex and caped crusaders fighting outsized villainy, or a hero with an ancient sword who smashes pottery to find gems?

Preposterous! Utterly ridiculous! Up surd! No, no, no, NO!!! Real, mature Christian adults can only be instructed with self-help adjacent, study type books. Everyone knows that!

Well… okay, but why? Do we lose something as we get older and need everything spelled out for us in order for it to sink in? And why is it that a freakish number of these “lessons” imparted through many of these “study group” books are ever so quickly forgotten and never fondly remembered?

This year, Karlissa and I are celebrating our tenth anniversary. And I’m sure it would come as no great surprise to anyone to find out that we have clashed; and still do. As someone who grew up in Western Evangelical culture – but never really knew the waters I was swimming in – I am surprised at how easily I came up with the expected steps when our relationship struggles.

· Talk to a pastor/church elder

· Read a Christian marriage book

· Listen to Christian marriage “experts” – podcasts, YouTube videos, TikTok, FaceBook, etc.

None of these are particularly appealing to me for a variety of reasons. Being an introvert. Finding most “Christian” marriage advice to be pretty shallow and mostly a band-aid solution.

But then, I came across something that not only grabbed my attention, but has begun to transform how I see not only my marriage, but my whole family. Spy x Family.

Not Your Average Spy Story

Written and drawn by Tatsuya Endo, this ongoing manga debuted in 2019. And, despite Endo having been in the manga game since the year 2000, this was his first work to be published in English. The premise is as follows…

In a Cold War-esque setting, a spy – code named “Twilight” – is tasked with getting close to reclusive politician Donovan Desmond to hopefully prevent a nuclear war between rival nations Westalis and Ostania. However, the only way to do so is through his son Damian, and the best way to do so is through the private school that Damian attends.

Therefore, Twilight is tasked with creating his own “family”. In turn he adopts little girl Anya and marries Yor to be his daughter and wife, respectively. However, he keeps them all in the dark that he is a spy on a mission.

Unbeknownst to him, though, both Anya and Yor are keeping secrets from him as well. Anya is a telepath, and Yor is an assassin. And thus, all three are trying to play the part of a happy family while keeping significant secrets from each other.

Okay, I know this sounds completely ridiculous. But really, I think it is all a front for addressing real family life and struggles.

Twilight (going by Loid Forger), is very much a dad. Equal parts composed, family leader, overworked and worrying that he isn’t doing well as a husband or father – thus compromising his cover – and I find him so relatable. He works hard, tries to make Anya study to do well in school, and constantly tries to affirm and encourage Yor as a wife, mother and person.

Yor is equal parts deadly competent and completely clueless. On one hand, her strength, love and resolve enabled her to raise her brother (Yuri) when they were children and has made her into a pillar of comfort and safety to Anya. On the other hand, her complete lack of cooking skills and social competence often leaves her on the wrong side of cultural expectations.

Anya is childishly naïve, yet somehow more in touch with things than either of her parents. Because of her telepathy, she not only knows both of their secrets, but picks up on struggles that both try to keep hidden from her. And yet, she is constantly afraid that if everyone knew each others’ secrets, it would destroy this family and the stability that she desperately needs.

And the story plays this out so superbly. Amid all the espionage, assassinations, and classroom drama is a family that is trying to find out how to function as a unit, despite their differences and secrets they can’t/won’t tell each other.

Lessons Learned

Now, how has this helped me in my marriage and family life? This all seems a little too outlandish, you might say, to be even remotely helpful. However, in this story I have been shown things that stick with me much more than simply being told “do this/do that”. Lessons like:

· What sticks with the child is family experiences much more than nice toys/presents

· While adults aren’t culturally allowed to ask for affirmation, they still need it

· While we are individuals, we are at our best when we sacrifice for others

· Miscommunication happens, but it needs to be worked through

· Raising a healthy child is much more involved than simply checking of a list of needs

And these are all told through entertaining and wildly unrealistic stories that ensure that the lessons will likely linger with me that much longer.

Maybe all of this means that I am not a proper, mature, Christian adult. But I would like to think that stories like Spy x Family that can teach us something, perhaps in an unexpected way, that will then stay with us much longer than a lecture or spiritualized self-help book.

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